How to have a Happy Family Christmas

-Decorate the Christmas tree, the crib and your home:

It's that time of the year when bling is in. Get out the ornaments, streamers, bells and the star, and adorn the Christmas tree.

-Send Christmas greetings to friends and family: Keep e-mails at bay, and pen down a word or two for your loved ones. There's nothing like receiving a personalised greeting card.

-Sing Christmas carols: It does not matter if you croak as long as you do it together. Bring in the holiday season with some festive cheer and a chorus of voices singing praises.

-Spend time with your grandparents: While they're on their rocking chair, sit by their side and hear their Christmas stories.

-Play 'Secret Santa': If you belong to a joint family, make chits and pick names playing 'Secret Santa'. Try not to burst the bubble until Christmas night.

-Go for mass together: Celebrate Christmas the traditional way. Attend the midnight mass with your family in church. n After mass, gather round the Christmas tree and unwrap your gifts: Everyone loves presents. So make a beeline for the tree and rummage through the pile to know what is in store for you.

-Help your mom prepare the Christmas meal: Be it applying butter on the baking dish or garnishing the Christmas pudding, there is always something for everyone to do. Volunteer your services behind the kitchen counter to see that smile on your mom's face.

-Steal a kiss under the mistletoe: While you waltz to your favourite tune, make your way under the mistletoe and get romantic with your spouse.

-Don't forget the family picture: Capture these moments and make a Christmas album so you can remember times spent with family on Christmas.

What Women don't want Before Sex!

Sloppy music 
Music is the clincher as you get set to hit the sack. As you turn down the lights and turn on a little mood music, choose what you are making your gal listen to carefully. What you play may be an indication about where the night is headed. Avoid anything too girly and do not play music with clear sexual overtones ("Let's Get It On").

Turn off the phone
Have you ever answered a call mid-way during sex and lived to regret it? Turn your phone off while getting intimate with your lady love. Interruptions can really put a damper on your sexual tempo, and if it is your mom calling, your girl is probably putting on her jacket and getting ready to leave. 

Groping is out
Well, even though you might want to lay your hands on your gal, be recommend you exercise caution. Grabbing her boobs, pinching her ass or ripping open her clothes is a big turn off. Moving randomly from 

body part to body part is thoroughly confusing and never gives your girl a chance to get into the mood. Move slowly from one body part to the next -- lightly caressing first, then with increased passion. 

Begging
Most women have clearly defined limits, before the date about just how how far she is willing to go, but men can change their minds. At the end of the evening, give her a passionate kiss to sweep her off her feet. This is when she may just reconsider going home with you. If she still isn't interested and expresses a clear discontent, do not whine or beg. If you beg, you will never get a second chance --ever.




Being in a hurry

Women take a lot of time to feel sexually into the moment. Most women loved being kissed, touched, caressed, and more than two minutes to reach the big O. So take time to focus on her. If you aren't satisfying her, she could get frustrated (or bored) and call it a night.




Don't keep looking at the watch
It takes time to get a woman going. She needs kissing, touching, caressing, and more than two minutes to reach orgasm. If you have moved past the make-out stage and the clothes are coming off, take time to focus on her. If you aren't satisfying her needs, your gal may just get frustrated and bored and call it a night.




Sloppy kissing
It doesn't matter how hot a dude is, if he can't kiss well, he ain't getting past first base. When you lean in for the first end-of-the-date smooch, remember to control your tongue. Don't unnecessarily lick her teeth, chin, cheeks, forehead, etc., and try not to stick it down her throat. It's a major turn off for women. Also, ensure you have pleasant breath, bad breath sucks!


Dull conversation 

All women dig compliments, but too many "Oh babys" can mar her mood. Going over-the-top with banter is a clear sign that the conversation is fake and forced. Concentrate on being your natural self. If things are really becoming passionate, don't ask unnecessary questions: "Do you like it when I kiss you?" "Does my hand feel good on your body?" Her responses will tell you if you are impressing her enough.

Keep your hands off when she's not in the mood
Women get turned off by men who can't keep their hands off them. Do not hand her a glass of wine, turn on some music, lower the lights and then stick your hand in her pants. You'll just be regarded as a horny dude!
                                                                                    
Asking for permission
Most girls like a man who loves taking charge, so when you ask for permission every step of the way you come across as a weak wimp. Asking her "May I please kiss you?" at the end of a date, or "Are you

OK?" when kissing is a major dampner. Rather analyse the situation; if she's really into it, be a man and take the plunge.